In the relationship between a dom and a sub, the dominant party will have the idea and sense of responsibility of "I want to make him better", but this often has side effects, causing his own thoughts to be too subjective, and because he is the role of daddy, he wants to force the sub to accept it.
临江老师(治愈版) - In the relationship between a dom and a sub, the dominant party will have the idea and sense of responsibility of "I want to make him better", but this often has side effects, causing his own thoughts to be too subjective, and because he is the role of daddy, he wants to force the sub to accept it.
dom和sub关系中,主导的一方会有“我想让ta变得更好”的想法和责任感,但往往会起到副作用,会导致自己的想法过于主观,又因为是daddy的角色想强行让sub接收 这种情况怎么避免呢?我建议不要管任何动机和由头,直接从行为上分析对方的情绪和喜好,行为是心理最好的影射,识别到了,那就可以做得更好 In the relationship between a dom and a sub, the dominant party will have the idea and sense of responsibility of "I want to make him better", but this often has side effects, causing his own thoughts to be too subjective, and because he is the role of daddy, he wants to force the sub to accept it. How to avoid this situation? I suggest that you don’t care about any motives or reasons, and analyze the other person’s emotions and preferences directly from their behavior. Behavior is the best psychological insinuation. Once you identify it, you can do better.
